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Musings from Southtown


Please send me a tall, good looking man who will take me camping...
There is nothing like being in the trees. Especially after a week looking after your confused elderly father in the hospital. Is it...

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Oct 9, 20222 min read
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on the mend
My father came back to life at 1:25am Sunday. It was before my son arrived from Texas and sister, from India. Dr. Chen - the ICU...

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Oct 7, 20222 min read
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with my 90 year old dad in the ICU
My sister keeps calling from India. She finally got a flight but won't get in till Monday morning. The ICU doc, a pulmonologist, had the...

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Oct 1, 20221 min read
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Harder Questions
Yesterday I received a group email from our writing instructor, a well known local journalist, and one of the kindest, most unpresuming...

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Sep 26, 20221 min read
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French Toast
I met Roger in the park near his home. He's the one who wanted me to come to his house for our second date, but I thought not. It was a...

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Sep 22, 20222 min read
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Stuck Inside a Blur
Good thing I learned to type in high school, memorizing the keyboard without looking, taking test after timed test until my words per...

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Sep 20, 20223 min read
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Eating Watermelon and Thinking about Courage
My Mexican ex-husband just called to tell me how alone he felt while attending the 15 de Septiembre Independence Day festivities last...

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Sep 16, 20222 min read
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Waking at 3am
My life is an abundance of riches. For example, these little shoes I saw while walking my dog. Being awake and alert at 3am - due to...

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Sep 13, 20222 min read
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Sunday morning
The author of this week's Short Sunday Reads which appears in my inbox early wrote about sleeping in and missing her flight on the first...

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Sep 11, 20222 min read
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Love and the Queen (Aging & Dating)
The Queen died yesterday while I was at yoga. My heart dropped when I heard the news even though I'm not a fan of the royals. The last...

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Sep 9, 20224 min read
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